Above pic taken in 2010

I created this section to answer some of the questions I often get in email.

I always thought “About Me” pages were written by ego monkeys, but I get emails asking me things so fuck it, if I’m an ego monkey by having this page, so be it.

My name is James (as mentioned above) and yes, that is my real name. It’s not some cool net alter ego like deathray29 or sexforu69 or even Puppyslayer. I pondered having an awesome name like hotstud4u or bb-ass-master but those were taken. Damn it.

I try and live my life by one simple philosophy. “Be the Change you wish to see in the world”. I trust in this so much, I had it permanently put on my body.

(right after getting it done so there was red.. from blood/bruising)

The proper full quote is “You must be the change you wish to see in the world.” – Mahatma Gandhi

I am outspoken and yes, at times I come off like a real piece of work. I can be an asshole, as I am sure you can at times, so what? I speak my mind and if someone has issue, that’s their issue, not mine. I have guys online trying to be me which is a trip, they use my photos and pretend to be me, they tell others they own or created the bella sites or B is their girl.. it’s weird. If someone wants to pretend to be me, whatever turns your crank man.

I’m just a normal guy though, the only thing separating you from me is I grabbed a camera, learned how to use it and started snapping. It’s not rocket science. Try it, you might like it. Hef was my idol growing up, same as 99.8% of all men.

Job wise, I own and operate the Bella Network, comprised of several websites within BellaPass <- click

I often get asked what it’s like having tons of guys online drooling over Bryci. Do I get jealous? Does it phase me?

Easy answer? No.

She sleeps right beside me every night.

I don’t have reason to get jealous, life is too short to sweat the small stuff. She’s amazing, and other guys wish they had a girl like her. I get it. What’s funny, if they knew the reality, how freaking amazing Bryci truly is, then they’d either wish they had a girlfriend like her even more, or they’d be scared shitless. So many guys out there make the stereotype that if a woman is beautiful, she is just looks and usually kind of a bubble head.

A real woman is a strong woman. Not some airhead that believes whatever she is told. Bryci is the polar opposite of these types of ladies. She’s brilliant, sophisticated and she’ll kick your ass at Tennis if you’re brave enough to ask her to play.

She is easily one of the most complicated, passionate people I have ever met. She is smart, funny, can add something substantial to any topic with something tangible. She’s one in a million, she’s the kind of girl you bring home to Mom and your Mom would pull you aside and warn you as mine did… if you fuck this up, I disown you.

She’s my best friend and I love her far more than words on this screen could say.