So guys, tell me… when you’re getting personal with your lady… do you take care of business? One of the biggest things I hear from female friends (way back when) was that most guys don’t have a fucking clue what they’re doing. They are too nervous, or they rush through things, or worst of all… they don’t take care of their lady the way she’s taking care of them.

What do I mean?

Simple… guys… you go downtown? Do ya pleasure her like she pleasures you? If not, start. If you do go downtown, points for you… but… keep in mind, most guys that go downtown don’t really know what they are doing. I am hearing this from FEMALES… and they’d know of course. So why don’t they tell you when you’d using too much saliva or your going fast when you should be going slow etc?

Well… put it this way…

You know when a girl is giving you head and it’s good, but it’s not great. She’s not really doing it right, either her hand work is sloppy or she keeps scraping your johnson with her teeth. Perhaps she can’t take as much down her throat as you’d like… but you know what I mean. Sure, it’s a blowjob, but you’d almost rather be playing Playstation. ya know? (there are some guys out there thinking I am the hugest fucking idiot for suggesting this, but those guys reading that have been where I am talking about, know I speak the truth)

So with that said, you my friend… could be that guy that thinks he’s taking care of the business… but in reality, she’d rather be watching Twilight. So, how can you improve? Well, the simplest thing you can do, is foreplay. There is no such thing as bad foreplay, unless of course you’re a newb. Tease her, watch her signals, watch for her body to move under your hands, watch for her signs. They are there, you just have to learn how to read them.

being good in bed is as easy as knowing your partner and paying attention to details. If you’re one of those guys that fucks, blows and gets off the bed… well, you my friend are not someone she’s going to want to keep around. Remember, she can get off without you, probably better than you are capable of doing… so give her a reason to keep you there. If you don’t, why would she keep you around?

I’m just saying… attention to detail.

It’s not rocket science, it’s body language. Learn to read it, master it, thank me later.